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Amaka June 24, 2020 at 5:42 am

After one has repented from sexual sin, What are the right words to use to apologise to a past female sex partner and to make her understand that you are a repented soul now, also to encourage her to repent too

Jack Wellman June 24, 2020 at 8:56 am

I think just be honest and tell them you are so sorry and repented of this because it was sin and sorry for using that person…

Ifeoma June 29, 2020 at 5:42 am

Good morning . My partner and I have been fight lust for some months now and in the beginning of the relationship we handed it over to God and told him to guide us through this journey. Our relationship is 2 years and some months . Few days ago we got carried away and we had sex online( it’s a long distance relationship but we are both virgins hoping to get married). On Sunday I got a revelation from God that I need to run away from sin and choose God over and human or human desire . Luckily for me my partner got the same revelation and we are filled with regrets so I came to this platform to help teach us how to avoid sin and become closer to God and after learning I will encourage my partner to do same because he is will to do anything to make sure God is not angry with us . In the guide the last step said we should cut of from our sexual partner , I am thinking it through do you suggest that we break up?

Jack Wellman June 30, 2020 at 11:35 am

Dear Ifeoma,

As someone who has struggled with lust, I want you to know that you are not alone. (Romans 3:23) Also, you need to know that God loves you and is not seeking to condemn you. (Romans 8:1) He wants you and your partner to walk in the freedom of the Spirit–this is why He sent Jesus to die on the cross–so we don’t have to live in the pits of lustful desires. (John 8:36) Every step in the process above will assist you if you want to be free–including the last step.

What is it you really want? You want to be married one day to the one who loves you unconditionally as Christ? Then you want what God wants–to present yourself as holy, pure, and godly to the one God wants for you (who is also living a holy, pure and godly life). I pray this prayer often: “God, I only want what You want for me.” God changes us from the inside out when it comes to lust. We make the step of obedience to His word and He enables us through the Holy Spirit to overcome our weaknesses. (Galatians 5:16)
I wish I could tell you it’s easy–it’s not–it’s a daily process of submitting to the Spirit and denying the flesh. (Matthew 26:41) However, if you do this–you will find yourself truly free and whole to be the person God is calling you to be for His purposes. This is most and more fulfilling than anything else you could desire.

God bless…Crystal

Chinwe July 21, 2020 at 1:34 am

Good morning sir sir, what do I do I met this guy in singles group organized by my church, we got dating and he was serious about settling down with me, but along the line we got carried away and sinned against God, we funicated…… What we do to restory relationship with God, as this is the second time it is happening in this relationship

Jack Wellman July 21, 2020 at 9:08 am

I would avoid being alone with this guy for now until you can date in public or with another couple. Please speak to your pastor or a godly woman in your church. This is sin, as you know. I would speak with this guy too that you cannot continue fornicating until you are married. If he shows no interest in marriage, avoid this man.

Lisha October 7, 2020 at 11:42 pm

I have been in a sinful relationship for over a year. I’ve made the decision to never look back recently. I also have been having alot of health problems and I feel so lost. I honestly would love to go back in time and do things differently, but I can’t. I know that I have disappointed God but I need Him and feel like He may not take me back.
I’m struggling so much with ending things with that person as well. I still think of him, it’s very irrational and I dislike it so much. Please pray for me. I am facing physical as well as spiritual despair. Will God ever forgive me and allow His favor to be upon me?

Jack Wellman October 8, 2020 at 10:02 am

I will pray for you but Lisha, call your pastor and speak with him. We need one another and especially in your case (Heb 10:24-25). Will God forgive you? Of course. If you have been born again and repented of your sins, yes.

Crystal McDowell October 17, 2020 at 9:01 am

Dearest Lisha…many of us believers have been where you are–the struggle of pulling out of a sinful relationship. God completely forgives and loves you. You have a everything you need in our Lord Jesus Christ. I’d encourage you to pray for a godly woman mentor to walk you through the difficult days. Also, hold your head up high…there is now therefore no condemnation to those in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1) and if you confess your sins, God is faithful to forgive you and cleanse you of all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). You are most certainly beloved of God–never ever ever forget this–nothing can separate you from the love of Your Heavenly Father sis (Romans 8:38-39). Hang tough…God’s got you. Plus I pray for your physical healing as well.

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