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DocReits April 30, 2014 at 11:40 pm

Not to be too critical Derek…but I disagree with your criticism of the use of criticism….lol.

You state it as such:

““the act of criticizing usually unfavorably.” (merriam-webster.com) I think this definition is one of the better ones.”

I think criticism gets a bum wrap because it is often defined incorrectly. BTW, one should never use the word being defined in the definition. (Another criticism…;-) I like this definition:

“The expression of disapproval of someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes.” (Google)

“The act of passing judgment as to the merits of anything.”
(Dictionary.com)

I think your definition is a common one, where the implication is that the judgment being made is not only “unfavorable” but “unfair”. If it was to be defined as such I would agree wholeheartedly with you. Likewise we are not to have a critical spirit finding fault for fault’s sake, again this speaks to the idea of “unfairness”. That is an incorrect definition of criticism though.

The definition of criticism is further distorted when you add the word “negative” to it. This certainly casts criticism in its pejorative usage, doesn’t it? There are many uses of criticism which are not constructive and not negative but simply “just” or “righteous” judgments against one’s faulty or wrong behavior. We use them all of the time. Here are a few examples:

I criticize the President’s support of abortion. I also criticize the Evangelical American Lutheran’s position on ordaining same sex clergy. Many criticized the invasion of Iraq. Sure we shouldn’t be driving ourselves nuts criticizing everything but there certainly is a place for criticism which argues against your statement:

“Any kind of negative criticism is unnecessary and foolish”.

There are actually many different uses for the word “criticism”. Here is a short list from Wiki of 21 uses, many are not, but some are germane to your topic:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Varieties_of_criticism

Here is a small snippet re. “negative criticism”:

“Negative criticism means voicing an objection to something, only with the purpose of showing that it is wrong, false, mistaken, nonsensical, objectionable, or disreputable. Generally, it suggests disapproval of something, or disagreement with something – it emphasizes the downsides of something….

The upside of negative criticism is that it can explain what the limitations of an idea, an action or a situation are, for the sake of being realistic. Sometimes it is necessary to say “no” to something (and explain why “no” is “no”).

In the modern world, negative criticism has acquired the stigma of “being negative”, and people who make negative criticisms can be easily exploited or manipulated. For this reason, many people nowadays express their negative criticism simply by not saying anything, not paying attention to something or someone, or by being absent.”

This sounds like the Church in America today, doesn’t it? Where are the cries from the pulpit against gay marriage, against abortion, against Congress and their marginalization of the Christian’s voice in America?? Where are our cries?…Our criticism of this outrage!!

The Church(we) have been silenced. Are we supposed to be the meek puppies in the corner not raising a fuss(Alarm)? No ,we are to be like Christ with the money-changers. Where are the Christian martyrs in America? We are too busy being meek and mild as these unborn babies are aborted(50 million, just in our country over the past 41 years). That is a whole generation of Americans…gone…and we remain silent, marginalized….non-critical…..weak…..pathetic…lukewarm…ready to be spewed from His mouth….

I do appreciate your articles and wish you God’s Blessings!

DocReits

Derek Hill May 3, 2014 at 9:35 pm

Hi DocReits. I used the definition I chose on purpose with the words “usually unfavorably” which opened up the door for constructive (positive) criticism. Maybe you are being too critical of me haha! Of course the church should always speak against any evils that you mentioned: “against gay marriage, against abortion, against Congress and their marginalization of the Christian’s voice in America.” There are people doing this but we definitely need more, in fact we need every single person who truly believes in Jesus to stand up for what is right in every single circumstance. Thank you for your thoughts. God bless!

David May 1, 2014 at 6:32 am

Interesting article Derek. I have been counseling a man from my old church who only hears what he wants to hear and blames everybody, except himself for his failures. All he thinks about is how we can help financially while he expects his partner to pay for everything. Neither of them are working and it is her family that has to come up with the means to exist. They have a small baby, his partner is an alcoholic and he uses that as an excuse not to work. As he is 53, you would have thought he should be old enough to know better. .
There are a number of us who lovingly and prayerfully have tried to help him. Sadly all of us have had to walk away. We still pray for him daily though.
Sorry to unburden myself like this, but it has been getting all of us pretty down who have tried to help him.
Blessings, David Central Europe.

DocReits May 1, 2014 at 2:28 pm

Hey David,

I empathize with your dilemma regarding this man who wants more money from the Church to keep himself going. You took me back about 15 years when I was in the middle of a similar circumstance. This man, about the same age as your speaking about(53), had four children whom he was homeschooling. He was out of work and asking for help from the church.

The church had given him some assistance and then had stopped and that is when he approached me to carry on the work of his support. I did, for a time, supplying his children with all of the books they needed for their schooling, etc. I was up into the thousands of dollars and he was still pleading for additional funds for fares to see his dying father, etc.

I felt terrible for his situation and yet I knew I had fallen into this hole into which there was no way out, since I had become his financial source. I counseled with the church and they advised me to stop immediately. There thought was that the Church(including myself) was robbing from God’s work by supplying the continual needs of this individual.

I still had problems with that as the man was looking for work(he said) and he seemed to have legitimate needs. I prayed and prayed over this situation with no clear word from the Lord. Oh, I knew the Scripture but it was still difficult to stop funding this man, which I eventually did(stop). He did find work, I believe, and I lost track of him after that.

The Message version of Thessalonians is a good reminder of this situation although, of course, it does not apply to those who are truly unable to work:

“Don’t you remember the rule we had when we lived with you? “If you don’t work, you don’t eat.” And now we’re getting reports that a bunch of lazy good-for-nothings are taking advantage of you. This must not be tolerated. We command them to get to work immediately—no excuses, no arguments—and earn their own keep. Friends, don’t slack off in doing your duty.”(The Message, 2 Thes 3:10-13).

Tough love! I will pray for your situation….

Blessings to you David.

DocReits

David May 1, 2014 at 11:27 pm

Greetings Doc, many thanks. I know 2 Thes 3, but not the Message Bible version which puts it very nicely indeed.
What has this to do with the article some may ask. Well a lot actually cos this man takes everything we say as criticizing him personally. All he wants is handouts, not advice,
When we do support him financially, he goes out drinking before he even puts groceries on the table then phones me up in an incoherent state and starts verbally abusing me with crackpot ideas, sometimes at 5.30 a.m.
One very respected elder at church once asked me if this man was really saved and I replied that it is between him and God and it is not our place to judge,
The result is neither the elder nor myself will support him anymore, I even refuse to go to his flat because the atmosphere there is so so so bad.
That said, I still lift him and his partner in prayer, as do others.
Again, many thanks Doc for your prayers.
May our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ Who died for us and rose again richly bless you.
David Central Europe

Derek Hill May 3, 2014 at 9:46 pm

Hi David. You can only do so much for someone. If they choose to continually make excuses for themselves instead of choosing to do things God’s way then I think you are right. Sometimes it is appropriate to walk away. I know I have before, so keep on doing what you are doing. Keep praying always. You never know what will happen! God bless you!

David May 4, 2014 at 12:29 am

Blessings Derek, many thanks for your words of encouragement.
Yes, I still believe God does miracles, so does our elder who has the gift of healing, We pray that his partner will be healed of her alcoholism, and he from resentment and self pity.
If God be for us, who can be against us?
David, Central Europe

Rev Mrs Theodora Dare September 23, 2016 at 6:48 am

Thank you very much for your Gid-sent article on criticism : it certainly blessed me and if it’s OK with you, I will use it in teaching the congregation. Yes, I have written some points on criticism but you put all points very well. God bless you and your ministry. Theodora.

Natalie February 22, 2017 at 2:01 am

There was a conservation that took place about a young lady that was disappointed in something that happen to her, and she posted a comment about it and use the words “immature personality” she was very disappoint in this person and she used this to describe the character of that person. Well some one replied that was not appropriate for her to call some one immature from a Women of God because she walks with the Lord and this can not be tolerated. I would like your option on the person that made the comment. Because now she is being convicted on what she said believe me I was with the young lady when the disappointed happened and she was very crushed and cried so very badly.

Jack Wellman February 22, 2017 at 9:39 am

Hello Natalie. How can someone know whether a person is an immature Christian or not? I would say the person that says such a thing is the one who is more immature because Christian’s don’t label people or call them names. This is not what the Bible teaches. I pray that the person who said such a thing repents and asks for the person who they offended to forgive them. That’s the Christian thing to do (Matt 18:15-18). Besides, it only matters what God thinks about them and not what any person says.

Christine Smith June 26, 2019 at 12:17 pm

Most People who criticize others need to have their own backyard cleaned or practice what you preach because those are the ones that like to criticize others.

Jack Wellman June 26, 2019 at 12:25 pm

Well said Christine.





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