What Does The Bible Say About Hospitality? A Christian Study

by Derek Hill on January 8, 2013 · Print Print · Email Email

Hospitality is a term that seems to be fading away in today’s culture.  People are becoming much more reliant on themselves.  Unfortunately, this is creating a mindset of “I don’t want someone to have to do something nice for me.”  I remember growing up and going to visit my grandma.  I realize now that I am older that I loved going to her house so much because of her hospitality.  She always fed us three square meals a day and she let us use her home as if it were our own.  She loved us through action and not just by saying “I love you.”  Now-a-days, people would rather go out to a restaurant than invite people over and cook for them.  Entertaining can be a chore with all that goes into it, but the benefits outweigh the pains.  Let us look into scripture and see what God says about hospitality.

Hospitality Requires Kindness

1 Peter 4:9 says, “Show hospitality to one another without grumbling.”  Have you ever watched someone do something because they had to and not because they wanted to?  Most of the time people will neither show joy nor gladness when they are doing something simply out of duty.  I remember working in the fast-food industry.  I served people food all of the time.  I was usually doing it out of duty because that was my job.  I also found myself complaining about my job sometimes.  I wasn’t being hospitable towards my customers at all.  Hospitality requires sincerity and kindness.  I should have served my customers with the mind-set of “I care about you as a person.”

Hospitality Should Be Shown To Everyone

Leviticus 19:34 says, “You shall not treat the stranger that sojourns with you as the native among you, and you shall love him as yourself, for you were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am the Lord your God.”  Every single person on this planet deserves love because we have been shown the ultimate love  through Jesus’ death and resurrection for our sins.  Jesus showed us the perfect model for hospitality because “while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)  Before you and I accepted Christ, He already paid our debt on the cross.  He loved us enough to die for us all.  I can’t even love someone enough to give them a ride somewhere sometimes.  God calls us to love everyone and hospitality goes a long way, especially to those who don’t expect it from us.  So, give your co-worker a ride home, even if you don’t know them very well.  Share your lunch with other people that have none.  Invite some friends over to your house and entertain them.  You will plant a seed that God can grow.

“Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.”

Hospitality Goes Further Than You Think

God calls us to love everyone, including strangers, but you may be doing much more than you thought when you do this.  Hebrews 13:2 says, “Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.”  What a phenomenal passage of scripture!  When we show genuine hospitality to a stranger, we may be serving an angel of God.  This is absolutely amazing!  There are stories of angels appearing before men all throughout scripture, but angels still appear before us today.  How amazing will it be when you are in heaven and an angel says, “thank you”, to you because of your hospitality?

Hospitality is the Velcro that Joins us Together

Hospitality comes from deep within your soul.  It is a symptom of the joy that is in your heart.  When you hold the door open for someone, help an elderly person with their groceries, offer to babysit for free, buy the person’s food behind you in the drive-through lane, or any act of kindness, the reaction is almost always the same.  The person that you have helped will usually say, “thank you”, and they will feel good deep inside their soul because of your kindness.  Doing good for others many times makes them want to do good for someone else too.  It feels good to serve others.  Serving others makes them want to be around you more and it makes them better people too.  Look in the New Testament.  Read the Gospels.  Jesus is the model of hospitality.  He had crowds in the thousands following Him because of His compassion for them.  Matthew chapters 5, 6, and 7 all encompass the sermon that Jesus gave on a mountain.  He came down the mountain in chapter 8 and healed a leper.  Then He healed a Centurion’s servant.  Then He went into Peter’s house and healed Peter’s mother-in-law.  That evening He healed many who were oppressed by demons.  Then He calmed a raging storm while He crossed the Sea of Galilee.  When He got to the other side of the Sea of Galilee, He healed 2 men with demons.  He left there immediately because He was asked too, so He went back to Capernaum and then He healed a paralytic man.  After that He calls Matthew to be His disciple, and the story keeps going.  Do you see what I mean?  Jesus was hospitable to everyone.  He had compassion to keep going on and healing the sick while spreading His story of redemption.  Look at how many people joined around Jesus because of His “Velcro.”

Conclusion

Hospitality is an action of love shown to those we love and those we do not love.  It is contagious and warms the hearts of those it touches.  I encourage you to be as hospitable as possible while you are still here on earth.  God calls us to it and He deserves our all.  God bless you as you continue to live a life worthy of the calling.

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The Holy Bible, English Standard Version

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Mabel January 8, 2013 at 7:48 am

This is a great article and so true; we, as Christians, should practice hospitality above everyone else, as this is commanded by our Lord. Sadly, however, when it comes to this matter, one can barely tell the difference between a believer and one who does not know Christ. After, I finally got committed to God’s calling, this is probably been one of my greatest challenges… dealing with very careless, thoughtless and unhospitable “christians”, those whom were suppose to show me the love of Christ, have been so often nothing more than a stumbling block with their lack of love. This is sad, as they deceive a world of people looking for Truth and who can’t tell the difference between those of the Faith and those of the world, like them; thus giving true Christianity a bad reputation. So often times, I’ve been told by unbelievers whom I’ve tried to relate the Gospel, that they know many “christians” whom they really don’t want to be anything like and rejecting the Truth of Jesus, not realizing that these so called christians are nothing but hypocrites.

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Derek Hill January 8, 2013 at 4:20 pm

Thank you Mabel. Unfortunately, you are right. There are so many Christians out there that don’t practice hospitality and they do look hypocritical. The whole point of Christianity can be summed up in the word “Servant.” We are called to be servants and love others just as Christ has loved us. Thank you for your thoughts Mabel and God bless you.

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Yvonne W January 12, 2013 at 2:50 pm

Perhaps, those without hospitality skills are babes in Christ. When one is born naturally or spirirtually, he/she must grow & mature. No natural born person came to earth walking, talking, nor feeding him/herself, & etc.
Spiritually born babes have a lot to learn. All is not learned overnight. Let us pray for all christians everywhere – that we all look-like, behave-like, & be more Christ-like each & everyday.

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Derek Hill January 12, 2013 at 5:39 pm

Excellent point Yvonne! I didn’t think about it from that point of view. I agree, we all need to pray for all Christians everywhere. Prayer is our greatest weapon here on earth. God bless you!

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Yvonne W January 13, 2013 at 1:15 am

May peace be multiplied to you. Thanks for responding. As a seasoned; but, still growing christian, I failed to see my opportunity to be more gracious, helpful, and hospitabile. I failed to encourage Mabel to be patient with other folks. I failed to commend Mabel. After all, she has “finally got committed to God’s calling.” Perhaps, the LORD has specifically placed Mabel where she could assist others learn to be more hospitable. The LORD is still a potter doing work among the folk that HE has called into HIS fellowship. He often works through other folk. When one believer helps another to grow spiritually, a loving bond usually develops. Christ died on the cross while I was yet a sinner. Now, I am in the “exclusive christian club” – among a faith based bloggers, I failed to solicit prayer for the lost & apparent hypocrites. I give thanks to GOD for forgiving me of my many shortcoming. Many blessings to us all as we strive to do our best to live to give GOD glory & love all mankind.

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Derek Hill January 13, 2013 at 4:55 am

Yvonne, I can see from your responses that you have a tender heart and that is a blessing in itself. As the old hymn goes, “Earnestly, tenderly Jesus is calling. Calling oh sinner come home.” I encourage you to use that tender heart to keep loving others as I am sure you already are doing. I feel the regret in your words about Mabel and I understand from the failures I have had in my life. If you haven’t forgiven yourself for your shortcomings with Mabel, please pray to God about it. I know I beat myself up way too long sometimes over mistakes that I make, but that can be a ground for the devil to take hold in. He loves broken hearts. He loves keeping us in a state of regret. The devil’s business is pain and suffering. God’s business is love and healing. God bless you Yvonne. I know you are a blessing to others. Stay strong in your faith and know that wherever Mabel is, she is in God’s hands too. Blessings on you!

Jack Wellman January 8, 2013 at 1:44 pm

Superb work Derek. I love the one about angels because we may be “tested” to see if we are going to extend hospitality, even to strangers for these may be the hardest to trust and extend hospitality too. I wish I could replicate what you have written and I get the feeling that you are the epitome of hospitality in word and in deed. Well done brother.

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Derek Hill January 8, 2013 at 4:27 pm

Thank you Jack. Your last statement was very kind. I still have a long way to go in being hospitable to everyone. God is gracious enough to love me anyways through my stumbling. As long as I walk with our Lord, He will keep molding me into what He wants out of me. I am learning as He is teaching. God bless you brother.

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Robert January 9, 2013 at 9:22 am

Thank you, Derek.
How we conduct ourselves is the strongest witness for Jesus, or against Him if we act badly. Thank you for this encouraging article.
Yours in Christ,
Robert

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Derek Hill January 9, 2013 at 3:33 pm

Thank you Robert. I learned a lot while writing this one. It was a blessing for me. I wonder how many angels I have neglected hospitality. I am so thankful that God forgives and forgets! God bless you brother.

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Lauren July 23, 2014 at 2:02 pm

Hospitality comes more naturally to me so it is not a stretch for me to open my home. My hubby and I have a lot of opportunities to host missionaries and are so blessed by their stories.
I think the biggest fault lies in the church. We are not challenged enough by our leaders to get out of our comfort zones. When I visit a church, if I get greeted at all, it is usually the standard, “Hello. How are you?”, as the person walks away to talk to their friends. If this is how the greeters in the church do, why should we expect anything more outside the building.
Also, in reference to some of the above responses, we need to be careful about using expressions like “so-called Christians” and “hypocrites”. Part of hospitality is replacing judging and name calling with grace. As the Lord taught us to pray, “Forgive us our trespasses and we forgive those who trespass against us.”

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