How Can I Overcome Addiction And Sin In My Life?

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Every Christian that is not in heaven still struggles with sin.  Many struggle with addictions.  Addictions to marijuana, to alcohol, to pornography, to gambling, to overeating, to shopping, and so many other sins.  Is there any hope in breaking the chains of addictions?  Since many Christians struggle with the sins of addiction they begin to doubt their own salvation. What can a believer do to escape…to overcome their sin?

The Apostle Paul Struggles with Sin

If anyone could overcome sin, surely it was the great apostle Paul.  He wrote more books in the New Testament and founded more churches than any other apostle.  Even though this great man of faith was a spiritual giant, he struggled with sin too.  Don’t let anyone tell you that you will not struggle with overcoming sin in this life after you are saved.

Romans 7:15-24:

15 “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do.”  And all of God’s people said, “Amen!”  What Christian has not battled with the flesh?  We end up doing just what we don’t want to do…but we do it anyway.  You are not alone.  You are in good company – with Paul.

16 “And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good.”  Paul is saying that I agree with the Law of God…that it is good.  The Ten Commandments say we should not bear false witness, but Christians are still not fully sanctified…..it is a lifelong work of sanctification and we are still prone to lie.

17 “As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me.” What Paul is saying is that it’s not really him anymore, but the old man or woman rearing its ugly head.  Even though we are new creatures in Christ (2 Cor 5:17), we are still not without sin (1 John 1:8).

18  “For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature.  For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.”  It’s like Paul said that he knows better, yet he falls into sin.  The only thing is that he doesn’t stay there. He acknowledges it and gets back up.  He has the desire to do the right thing but guess what:  He still can not carry it out…in his own strength that is.  This takes the very power of God:  God the Holy Spirit (Rom 12:2).

19 “For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.” That is me in a nutshell.  A train wreck, a sinner, a wretch but the good news is that Paul realizes that the good he wants to do is what he is not doing…and he keeps on doing it!  The good news here is the fact that he understands that it’s wrong.  This is strong evidence that the Holy Spirit is working in him, convicting him of his sin.  A person who is not born-again has no true desire to do what is right nor are they convicted when they do evil things.

20 “Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.”  Paul is cutting himself some slack. He understands that he is battling the old nature.  The pre-conversion person.  The Saul is still in there but Paul is not settling for it now, neither is he allowing to let is slide.

21 “So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me.”  This “although I want to do good” is because God has given him His Spirit to show him his sin and even though evil is there with him…he recognizes that he wants “to do good.”  That is hopeful because he understands that the law is at work.  The Law is a mirror, showing us our sins and he recognizes the evil being there with him (James 1:23). He wants to do good and that is a sentence full of hope, not despair.

22-23 “For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me.There is a battle for the mind…the battle is ultimately through Jesus Christ but it is a war nonetheless.  We might lose battles but the war has truly been won already.  The law was made clear to Paul by his conscience (Rom 2:15).

24 “What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death?” Paul finally admits defeat in his own frail, feeble, human strength.  He needs rescuing.  He is subject to eternal death without a rescuer.  What can this wretched man do?!  What can we do!?

25 “Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature a slave to the law of sin.” Paul falls on his face, being a wretched man and admits defeat (Rom 7:24) and gives thanks to God Almighty, our Mighty Savior, Who delivered him and Who will also deliver us.

How To Overcome Addiction

I prayed hard, “Lord, please help me, I am weak.” You know what? It worked.

Victory in Defeat

You can not overcome sin on your own…you can not conquer your marijuana addiction on your own…you can’t overcome the addiction to pornography by your own strength…you can’t defeat the enemy of alcohol, gambling, overeating, depression…just name it:  You just can’t do it…..but God can!  He wants to help you overcome the powerful sins of your life and your strong addictions, the mighty fortress where we have no chance at all.  God desires to help us and He is more than able and He is absolutely willing to.  Imagine the God of the universe.  He created the entire universe, all the stars, the galaxies, the sun…everything!  He knows the 100 trillion times 100 trillion number of stars all by name.  Now is anything really to hard for God?!  No!  We have no power in ourselves but the Holy Spirit is God and the very power of God working in you.   The first thing you need to do is to acknowledge to God that you can not overcome this by your own power.  That is exactly what He has been waiting to hear.   Victory will only come in defeat.  You are in over your head but God is over all things.  When we tell God “I just can’t beat this thing God”, He must say, “Finally…now, maybe I can send my power to help them.“  He will be your strong tower.

Pray day and night for the help you need.  God can deliver you…He did me!  But it took time. Don’t lose heart. You will slip and fall but get back up, pray for forgiveness and ask God to cut off all the sources of your drug addiction, if you are addicted to pornography, get rid of the Internet.  Jesus said, speaking in hyperbole, If your hand offends you, cut it off“(Matt 5:30).   What He is saying is to cut off the source of your addiction or sin.  If you can’t get rid of the Internet, then have a friend put a password protected filter on it.  If you are addicted to drugs, turn in the illegal drug dealers.  Drastic yes, but this is what it must take.  God can do all things…He created the universe and He can help deliver you and He desires to help you overcome this addiction but you may have to make some painful decisions.  We can do nothing on our own…but we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us (Phil 4:13).  The converse of that is that we can do nothing in our own strength.

Victory in Christ

Please don’t lose heart if you are battling an addiction or some deeply entrenched sin.  Sometimes these demons are mighty strongholds of the mind. The very fact that you are grieved over your addiction or sin is evidence that the Holy Spirit is not only in you but working in you, for the Spirit convicts us of sin and sanctification is a lifelong process.  The very fact that you searched for this over the Internet is evidence that the Holy Spirit is working in you.  Can’t you see that!?  This is no coincidence. God brought you to this article today for a very specific purpose, a reason, to be a path for your feet – a light for your life.  It starts with God and ends with God.  I am a pastor today but let me tell you that I was in prison, hooked on drugs, stole, and was headed down the broad path of hell. It took me years and years to finally get over this, yet God never, ever gives up on me and He will not give up on you.  Like the Prodigal Father, He kept looking down the road for me to come to Him.  He is looking down that road today, waiting, watching, for you.

What I finally did to break the addiction was to pray that all the sources or suppliers of my drugs were removed from me or that they would move…whatever it took.  I prayed hard, “Lord, please help me, I am weak.”  You know what?  It worked.  God heard my prayer and answered it.  It took me a very long time and today I am clean and sober but I am still a train wreck, a sinner and I will never overcome all sin in this life.   Jesus’ blood covers past, present, and future sins of ours….so the very fact that you have a sin or addiction weighing heavy on you should not, I pray, make you lose heart.  The fact that you are grieved over your sin is a great sign that the Holy Spirit is trying to show you your sin.   Once a believer repents, this does not mean that they will not fall back into sin.  No, we will sin again and again…but turning from our sin we will begin to loathe it all the more.  Yes, we need to repent, but we sin every day and every day we can begin and end the day by falling on our face, hands, and knees before God to ask for forgiveness.  You too can declare as Paul did, Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord (Rom 7:25)!

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Faith February 7, 2016 at 2:35 am

Im struggle with addiction of porn and mastubation I need help I keep doing it and I want to do good again..

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Jack Wellman February 7, 2016 at 8:18 am

Hello Faith. I suggest you follow the steps given and in this article is says you should find a Christian women who you trust to be your accountability partner. You must follow the steps give and not give us. Ask your church to pray for you for an “unspoken needs” so that you can have the saints of God praying for you too.

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Faith February 8, 2016 at 2:07 am

Greetings In the name of Jesus…I have a question when I pray to God about my addiction which is porn I dont know how to say it to God because I just feel so guilty that I dont even know where to start praying ..I usualy attend altercall at church when it something similar to my problem ..my worry is that I dont know if I will be a good wife to my fiance or a mother to my children to be if im still struggle with this addiction I love God and I want to do good nd live a life that is pleasing to Him

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ken February 27, 2016 at 10:01 am

I need prayer for addiction to sex and drinking.i have been in this battle for most of my life,i pray for Gods grace and deliverance and then go right back to it.i hate my sins but I can’t stop it.the guilt and depression is heavy,sometimes I feel God has given up on me and then sometimes I feel he is here with me in this struggle.its a rough cycle I don’t know what to do or were to go.i know I need help.i have not thought that much about suicide by once in awhile I do,but I would never do that.please help and pray for me.

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Misty April 26, 2016 at 4:41 am

Thank You so much. This article means alot to me. Gave me hope. and to know the Holy Spirit is working in me is an Amazing feeling of Joy.

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Aaron June 13, 2016 at 12:33 pm

Thank you so much for writing this article. it was really an uplifting thing to read. I am addicted to porn, and keep on doing it, but am growing up in a christian home, and became a believer last year. It was never like me to do these evil things. And i keep on doing them, even though i know this is very wrong. i pray to God, and ask for forgiveness, but he doesen’t seem to answer. i know he is there, and i know he loves me, and i want to love him. I can tell he is dong a great work in me, but i know i cant do so when addicted to porn. I am to imbaressed to talk about it to someone face to face, because i know its very wrong. Could you give me some advice?
Thanks again for this article. I can really see the power of God working in you, just from this.

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Jack Wellman June 13, 2016 at 4:37 pm

Hello Aaron. I hope it helps you but within the article are practical applications that you can take to help you overcome this sin. You must swallow your pride and talk to your pastor or find a Christian man, an older trusted Christian, who can be your accountability partner. Do you access pornography over the Internet? Then have a friend put a password protected filter on it. Please read this article which is full of steps you can take that addresses your sin very specifically at this link: http://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/how-to-overcome-an-addiction-to-pornography-help-for-struggling-christians/ but again, until you are willing to confess your faults to someone else, as James wrote, you cannot receive healing I don’t believe. I will pray for you my beloved brother in Christ.

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Jaldesa Doyo June 20, 2016 at 12:29 pm

I need prayer for addiction to Jealous, hate, doubt, fear and sever depression have been in this battle for most of my life,i pray for Gods grace and deliverance and then go right back to it.i hate my sins but I can’t stop it.the guilt and depression is heavy,sometimes I feel God has given up on me and then sometimes I feel he is here with me in this struggle.its a rough cycle I don’t know what to do or were to go.i know I need help.i have not thought that much about suicide by once in awhile I do,but I would never do that.please help and pray for me. how can I overcome these events through Jesus Christ?

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Jack Wellman June 20, 2016 at 12:42 pm

I would do as this article suggests. Talk to your pastor, find an accountability partner, and cut off all the sources of your anger. It’s a heart issue. What are you so angry about? Jesus died for us while we were still ungodly, wicked, and His natural enemies (Rom 5:6-10). Some churches have a group that meets for these things so connect with one, find a mentor, talk to your pastor, ask for the prayers of the saints in your church (as unspoken needs) and then trust God to work in you. It’s actually a good sign that there is a battle going on…at least you are on the right side…the side that strives to live a holy life.

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Austin July 26, 2016 at 1:01 am

Thank God for this article. Just moments before reading this I fell again to my lengthy addiction to pornography. I had gone about a week clean which is good for me as I usually need to watch it daily. They say it’s the only sin you commit against your own body so it’s kinda like a suicidal tendency in a weird way. Like cutting myself. I struggle believing that the Lord forgives me after such weakness and blatant disregard for his word. But I always ask for it anyways. I got ride of my smartphone and put covenant eyes on my computer but I still find ways around it. Please pray for me brothers and sisters. I will pray for those who requested as well.

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Betty August 13, 2016 at 12:59 pm

I’m struggling with opiate addiction, I desperately want to stop, but can’t endure the withdrawls. To make things worse I’m a nurse and temptation is ever present causing me to steal and lie as well. I suffer from depression and PTSD, I feel like I’m an enemy of God and can’t ask for forgiveness because I know I will fail again. I don’t want to wake up in the morning to begin a new day because I know I will fail. I’ve attempted suicide twice because I can’t find the help I need. I don’t want to be a nurse because of the temptation, but I’m single, with no support systems or anyone I can trust to confess to. I feel hopeless and bound for hell because I backslid and got myself into this mess. I feel this is all reaping what I’ve sown and Jesus will tell me to depart from him in the judgment. I live in constant fear and panic attacks. I need to go to detox but can’t afford the cost of treatment. I want to die.

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Jack Wellman August 13, 2016 at 5:23 pm

Hello Betty. Have you tried contacting your pastor? Churches often have such programs where they can help. We have one near us called “Celebrate Recovery.” Have you told anyone? Do you have a trusted Christian woman? God can deliver anyone from these things by His power for all who are brought to repentance and trust in Christ? Do you believe this Betty? Please fall on your knees, confess this sin to God, put your trust in Christ, and then cry out for His strength (Phil 4:13) because we can do nothing without Christ (John 15:5). Don’t give up. That’s what Satan wants you to do. God forgives us of all of our sins (1 John 1:9) and we become new creations in Jesus Christ (2nd Cor 5:12). For now, I will pray for you Betty.

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David September 7, 2016 at 1:12 am

This article has been a blessing this evening after a very dark day. I was feeling extreme guilt and depression after falling into sin again. So deep was my darkness that I had thoughts of suicide. I had recently asked God to forgive me so after I had sinned I felt very shameful and dishonest to the lord. But merciful God allowed me to find this article. Reading this article has shown me that I really haven’t given my problems to the lord, I’m trying to do it on my own and it’s not working .

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mark September 12, 2016 at 9:22 am

I am a Christian who struggles with alcohol and have done for many years,I don’t get drunk but feel the need for a beer daily.The Lord has told me that” alcohol is not part of my future”.I truly believe that the Holy Spirit guided me to this article today which has helped so much and I will try to stop condemning myself all the time.God is so good and the bible tells us that we are “work in progress”. May God bless you all,you are in my prayers.

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rdmjone September 24, 2016 at 7:44 am

Good! A very simple, practical, helpful, and encouraging article. Thanks!

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Mark November 9, 2016 at 9:16 am

I’m drinking all the time, not getting trashed but buzzed…It’s got to the point where I doubt my born again experience was real..(maybe I’m not truly saved ?) I used to be so in love with Jesus, his people, his music. Now I’m the dog returning to it’s vomit. The problem is that I don’t want to quit. Drinking has become my idol. Please give me advice and who ever reads this please pray that my desire to quit will get me started on the road back to being a lover of Jesus, not alcohol. Thanks

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Jack Wellman November 9, 2016 at 12:04 pm

My friend, you need to find an accountability partner and from a trusted, Christian friend in your church. We need one another and can’t go through our Christian faith as a lone ranger Christian as there are over 50 “one another’s” in the New Testament, meaning we need each other and the prayers of the saints but only God’s Spirit can break this addiction. If you don’t want to quit, then that means’ you’ve never repented of it, so please think about seeking a session with your pastor. No one can help you overcome by you and God’s Spirit working together within the community of the Body of Christ, the church, where Jesus Himself is present and the Head of the Church.

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Dr November 9, 2016 at 10:20 pm

I have been struggling with pornography and addiction and i fall back in it any time i stop for weeks some times am able to sto stop for weeks but it get back again. I have been praying for God to help me but and I sometimes feel like Gods doesnt hear my prayers. i get sad and guilty always any time I go back in to this after stoping it for weeks. I need prayers please.

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Shannon Gallagher December 28, 2016 at 6:33 pm

I’m a blessed born again Christian, mother of two.
I repent daily, I read my bible, I pray all day long, I watch sermons on Tv all day, I can’t get enough of Jesus, but I have a couple problems…I’m addicted to opioids and I live with my fiance, but I have stopped all sexual contact with him and he sleeps in our spare bedroom.
I need help with prayer…to get off the Suboxone my doctor has me on and I pray that he will marry me.
I desire Jesus every moment of my life and I so want to obey him and I feel like a failure for these two things.
Please pray.

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Jack Wellman December 28, 2016 at 8:54 pm

Praying for you Mrs. Gallagher. Hope others will join with me.

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Ryan January 16, 2017 at 1:14 am

I am struggling with cocaine on and off and I do good for a week or 2 an then fall back down the wrong path and use again. I feel horrible every time I I use and I pray and pray and ask for forgiveness and I’m to the point to where I feel like there’s no point anymore. I continuously let God and myself down. I have not lost faith but I’m feeling empty inside. I recently admitted my use to my girlfriend and I feel like it’s a step forward. I’ve quit before and I feel like God is the reason. I felt something strong when I prayed and it made me know everything was okay. I could feel his presence.. I haven’t been feeling that and it’s bringing me down. I’m lost.

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Barbara February 1, 2017 at 4:59 pm

Hi. I’m Barbara; a 21 year old college student who suffers from food addiction. From the outside looking in, I may not appear this way, but I’m slowly dying from the inside because of it. Stress= food (sugary, junk foods in particular). Nothing to look forward to, but food. I’m alone, lonely and have fallen into depression again. No friends. Transfer student to a university with a population of approximately 40,000. Crazy, but food’s been there for me for over a decade. On the good note is, I joined 12step recovery at a church nearby, but so impatient.. I want my addiction to end over night and I am finally free, can think straight and love me even when I gain weight! I’m tired of fluctuating in weight. Tired of going to food. Tired of a lot, and only hoping god will save me before I attempt to take my life again. I’m aching. I need help.

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Jack Wellman February 1, 2017 at 5:07 pm

Hello Barbara. God will not give up on us. This takes time and so it won’t be overnight but you are doing the right thing and are on the road to recovery. That’s much better to me. I hope others will join me in praying for you Barbara. I will. May God comfort you and so please don’t even think about ending your life. If that thought comes up, pray, call out to God, and call someone you know who is a trusted, Christian friend.

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Michael Gentry February 6, 2017 at 11:55 pm

I’m fighting the battle with drugs. Its been ruining my life ever since I was a kid. My dad dealt with this addiction. I felt really lost until I read your testimony and the scriptures you provided. Thank you so much!!!! I have a new understanding of my problems. And I know one day he will set me free.

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Anon February 17, 2017 at 5:10 pm

Unspoken prayer request. Thank you.

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Sarah Almeida February 28, 2017 at 1:00 pm

Hi everyone I just want to share my testimony on overcoming depression, anxiety, porn, drugs, and anything else the enemy has tried to hold bondage on my life. I believed the lie that I was never going to be normal and step out of this chapter in my life. I made a choice. I fasted, prayed, was transparent with the Lord in spirit and in truth. I praised Him in my pain and sufferings through withdrawal, I crucified my flesh by fasting and water only. I drew very close to God after. The first day I endured emotional withdrawal and after that I never wanted to feel that again and God spared me of weeks on end of withdrawal. I became naturally High seeking the Lord. Applying the word of God in my life brought me more faith. I am now sober and happier than ever and I don’t let my circumstances control me because I have a powerful God. In the will of God we face the same things an unbeliever will have but its how WE REACT to the situations thrown our way. Praise and Worship is KEY to pleasing our Father. Play it CONSTANTLY. (I love listening to Paul Wilbur very anointed music.) I am now an addict to Jesus Christ Yeshua Hamashiach the best everlasting high in the world.

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Jack Wellman February 28, 2017 at 2:02 pm

Praise God for your deliverance my sister in Christ. I thank God for your powerful testimony.

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John March 29, 2017 at 5:22 am

This really has helped me thank you so much, I struggle, doubting my salvation due to my addiction. This article has encouraged me to continue to pray for freedom and deliverance. I have been in a really dark place recently, to the point of considering putting a pernanent end to it all. I will seek God and pray for His forgiveness and help with true repentance.

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Sophie March 31, 2017 at 9:39 pm

Thanks for the article, mine is masturbation. I’ve struggled with it for about five years. I’ve prayed and cried3f to God and he helps me but I keep going back. I’ve tried so hard wnd trusted him but I don’t want to do this again. I want to geow spiritually. I don’t want to go back Pastor. I’m tired of my sins they have ruined my life. I was a virgin before Dec last year but now my boyfriend and I are having sex but I don’t want to continue. We both agreed to fear god but we keep making the wrong decision bout sex, But I don’t want us to break up. What should I do?

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Jack Wellman April 1, 2017 at 8:49 am

If you value Jesus above all things (Matt 6:33) over your own lusts, then you will be in the kingdom, but Paul says those who practice such things will not enter the kingdom of God. You need to repent of this and put CHrist first or your own desires first. Call your pastor. You are not in a good standing right now before God.

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Patty April 7, 2017 at 10:05 am

Beloved Betty, know that YOU ARE LOVED & NOT ALONE!! I am in full agreement with Pastor Jack’s suggestion regarding “Celebrate Recovery!”
An EXCELLENT support for everyone with “hurts, hangups & habits”, which includes us all!!
God’s Grace, Peace & Strength as you move forward to freedom!!

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Jack Wellman April 7, 2017 at 11:35 am

Thank you Patty. I hope you’ll pray with me for Betty. Love your compassionate heart my sister in Christ.

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Jason April 11, 2017 at 3:17 pm

Through the Spirit, I’ve been able to overcome many of the problems discussed here–I had struggled with them for years, but God brought me back and has been working to change me. I know the changes are real, and I’ve even been told that I seem like I’m in a cult, which I take as a good sign. I have one problem area that I’m struggling with–I have a girlfriend who is not saved from before my recent ‘return’ to Christ. She has been very angry about the changes in my behavior. She has been pressuring me to have sex with her, but I’ve been able to avoid the situation for some time now. I seem to have lost the desire for sex and pornography (thank you, Jesus). Recently, in an argument with her (which was really just her getting angry with me), I began telling her about Jesus. And when she said something like, “well, are you saying Jesus is your top priority?” I said, “Yes, I guess that is exactly what I’m saying…” The problem for me is, I’m having a hard time breaking it off with her. I care about her, love her, and don’t want her to go to hell. But at the same time, I can’t go to bed with her, and I’m worried that she will wear me down. I guess the only thing I can do is tell her I can only be her friend, and then let her be hurt/go crazy/whatever she’s going to do. You would think that deciding between the Creator of the universe and my girlfriend would be so much easier, but I’m weak. I think my main problem here might not be so much the attraction (which is no longer controlling me) as much as it’s the desire to please a person. I welcome your prayers and advice.

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Jack Wellman April 11, 2017 at 6:15 pm

If she is “wearing you down” then you may need to see her only in public as we know that sexual immorality is sinning against one’s own body and Jesus told us all that we must love Him more than mother, brother, sister, or spouse.so it is a high cost, but some are not willing to pay this price. Call your pastor and have your church pray for you even if it’s “unspoken needs.” I will pray for you sir but we do need one another (Heb 11:24-25) as the Christian life is not a solo act.

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Emmanuel April 19, 2017 at 8:36 pm

thank you pastor for your information.

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Jack Wellman April 19, 2017 at 9:42 pm

Thank you Emmanuel. My answer is always (1 Cor 4:7).

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Brad April 22, 2017 at 1:10 am

I’m a christian that has struggled with overeating depression and sexual sin I have asked for the Holy Spirit to help my question is why is it taking so long some instantly healed is it a life long process for some belivers

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Jack Wellman April 22, 2017 at 9:58 am

Hello Brad. Let us pray together in Jesus’ name so that He is most glorified, because that’s what the Father desires. You need to sit under good Bible teaching/preaching, Sunday school and Bible study just like I do, but please call your pastor and tell him and ask your church to pray for you as we are commanded to do (James 5:14) so as we need one another (Heb 10:24-25) and seek to do what Jesus commands us to do (Matt 25:34-39) as we do it to Him (Matt 25:40) or we do nothing for Him (Matt 25:41- and that’s not good (Matt 7:21-23).

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Dan April 27, 2017 at 10:14 pm

Mentioning the opiate addiction, I see many of my own thoughts in what you wrote…self loathing as i know I’ll use as I wake, as the withdrawals are severe. Been on prescription MS for 16 years, only withdrew once, but pain? and lengthy symptoms of such long use kill me, something I’ve tried…in a coma for 6 days, got mad when I woke up. I need to cut down, and I prayed tonight for help, and believe the holy spirit is still in me, although I thought I’d driven all divine help away. I suppose all I can do is keep trying, and prayng.

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Dan April 27, 2017 at 10:19 pm

Fighting MS addiction, I thought I was beyond redemption. Tried suicide, was in a 6 day coma, but messed up when awake. I should be dead, but I’m still here. I look after my aging mom, so that might be it, but I need to withdraw on my own, as I can’t do detox…she has dementia and I’ve got to be here for her. I read that the Holy Spirit must still be in me, as I do want to live for God, and that seems the most important thing. I’m more than a train wreck, and don’t know if patches will work, but I did pray again, hope it will matter.

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Jack Wellman April 29, 2017 at 1:49 pm

Hello Dan. I think if we’re honest with ourselves, we’re all train wrecks before God. Please know I will pray for you. Don’t give up. God doesn’t give up on us.

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John April 28, 2017 at 5:45 pm

Thank you very much for this article, Pastor, for letting God use you to write it. Like so many here, I, too, have addictions… became addicted to medication after having to start taking following an accident. Just to be clear, I don’t mention that as an excuse. I also struggle with lust, pornography, and doubt.

I was saved when I was 11 years old, when after family Bible study, my dad asked if either my sister or I was ready to be saved, after explaining why we need Jesus, and after saying yes, he led me in prayer to accept Jesus.

During the last of my high school years, I became involved in the party scene, drinking to get drunk and sometimes marijuana. I was upset when I got caught, but it ended up being the best thing for me. I didn’t straighten right up, but I did fairly soon, wanting to be closer to God. Not long after that, I started doubting my salvation. Now that I look back, I’m thinking that was the devil not liking me turning back to the Lord. The embarrassing part to admit is that I was 19 or 20 when that started, and though it hasn’t been every day since then, I’ve still doubted a lot, and it’s been 15-16 since then.

An accident occurred that changed my life, and because of the opiate addiction (which is a LOT better than it was, cutting ties with people who’d take them with me) the doubting started hitting harder. The pornography/masturbation, I’ll pray for forgiveness each time, and I’ve stopped for periods of time, but then start back up. I know it’s wrong when I do it and that i’ll feel bad, not worthy of going right back to God for forgiveness and asking for help to stop over and over again.

Someone else stated they don’t want to quit, and I feel like there’s a fight with me, wanting to quit and not wanting to at the same time… not that I don’t feel shame and I don’t want to live in sin, because my desire is to live a life where Jesus can tell me “job well done, my good and faithful servant,” when I get to heaven. I think it’s that I’m just scared of the actual process, if that makes sense.

I mention being saved at 11 because even though I’ve doubted, thinking it must not have been real, I’ve also prayed to accept Jesus since then, many times, even though I know we don’t have to do that. The shameful part of that is I know every time I do, it means that I’m basically doubting that Jesus didn’t listen the first time, that maybe I lost it (which I know isn’t possible) or that maybe I wasn’t sincere, when I know I was. I also know that He doesn’t sit up there in heaven after we accept Him, knowing we need Him, and let us go on thinking we’re really saved if we’re not.

I feel as though if I weren’t saved, I wouldn’t even be worrying about this, and that I wouldn’t be as worried about those who don’t know Jesus spending eternity in hell if they don’t turn to Him. There is nothing I want more than to spend my eternity in heaven and not separated from God. Even though I know these things, I still doubt. I do have a home church that I’ve not been attending as I should, using my health problems as an excuse, which is all it is. I’m praying asking God to help me get back there.

I apologize for the very lengthy message. I’m just so sick and tired of feeling this doubt, it’s draining in every sense of the word. I would GREATLY appreciate any thoughts/advice/help. Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this. May God continue to bless you!

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Jack Wellman April 28, 2017 at 6:02 pm

Hello John and thank you sir for your honesty. Read Paul’s struggle (Rom 7) and we all sin for certain, even after saved (1 John 1:8, 10) I am so glad you asked for prayer and I am going to pray even as I write this! I am so sorry for what you are going through right now but please call your pastor and tell him and ask your church to pray for you as we are commanded to do (James 5:14),even if it’s “unspoken needs.” We need one another (Heb 10:24-25) and we must seek to do what Jesus commands us to do (Matt 25:34-39) as we do it to Him (Matt 25:40) or we do nothing for Him (Matt 25:41- and that’s not good (Matt 7:21-23). There are over 50 “one another” references in the New Testament and you need the body as the body needs you. We need one another. Satan is like a roaring lion, seeking whom he might devour and he looks for the hurt ones, the isolated ones, and the ones separated from the sheepfold, so call today or return to worship and counsel and the prayers of the saints. John wrote his gospel and 3 books “so that we can know” that Jesus Christ is the Son of God and not to be unsure if you’re saved or not. Praying for you brother.

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Yolanda May 4, 2017 at 9:39 pm

Thank you for this article!! I have a deep conviction to God and have known Jesus Christ since birth. However, I am addicted to Ritalin coke marijuana. Anything to keep me sane. I suffer from depression ADHD PTSD wounded inner child syndrome. I feel sooooo guilty and I cry a lot. When I am sober I get depressed and feel so far from the Lord. I want so badly to do God’s work such as helping ppl with mental illnesses and witnessing to them. But I’m stuck and I am so tired of living this lie.

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Jack Wellman May 5, 2017 at 9:34 am

Hello Yolanda. Please call your pastor and tell him and ask your church to pray for you as we are commanded to do (James 5:14) as we need one another (Heb 10:24-25) and seek to do what Jesus commands us to do (Matt 25:34-39) as we do it to Him (Matt 25:40) or we do nothing for Him (Matt 25:41- and that’s not good (Matt 7:21-23). If you don’t seek help, you will always be in this state. Living the Christian life is never a solo act.

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Jack Wellman May 6, 2017 at 7:00 pm

Hello Yolanda. Call your pastor. Ask if they have a ministry like this already and be a part of the Lord’s work. You will take your mind off of drinking and yourself when serving others.

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