Why Would God Forgive Me? Answers for Those That Feel Unforgivable

by Robert Driskell · Print Print · Email Email

There are many people, both Christian and non-Christian who think that they are unforgivable. They think that they have done something, or some things, so bad that God cannot, or will not, forgive them. This belief leaves many in a state of despair; they feel guilty and desperately seek forgiveness, but they just do not think it is possible. In this article, we will look at this issue and find that there is hope for even the vilest of sinners…not to mention you and me.

The Bible records that God saved the worst sinners

The New Testament tells us that the apostle Paul, before he became responsible for writing much of the New Testament, was an intense persecutor of Christians. He tracked down believers, had them drug off to prison (both men and women), and had many put to death for following Jesus Christ (Acts 9:1, 13, 21; 22:4, 19; 26:10-11; 1 Corinthians 15:9; Galatians 1:13; Philippians 3:6; 1 Timothy 1:13). It would appear that, if any man deserved the judgment of God, Paul certainly did.

However, the biblical record shows us that Jesus Christ (following His death, burial, and resurrection) appeared to Paul, whose name was Saul at the time, and asked, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” (Acts 9:4 ESV). Paul fell to his knees and replied, “Who are you, Lord?” to which Jesus said, “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting” (Acts 9:5 ESV). If we put ourselves in Paul’s place at that moment, it is still difficult to imagine the guilt that he must have felt as he was confronted by Jesus’ holy presence. In his mind, Paul must have replayed every nasty thing that he had done to all those believers and the guilt he experienced was undoubtedly more than most people will ever experience. Paul surely felt unforgivable at that instance. Nevertheless, Jesus powerfully saved Paul and used him to evangelize much of the ancient world and write down much of what we now call the New Testament. Jesus can forgive and save us too.

It is true, we are not worthy of His forgiveness

He loves us enough to provide a way to forgive us

He loves us enough to provide a way to forgive us

Many people feel unworthy of God’s love. The truth is that none of us are worthy of God’s forgiveness, “None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one” (Romans 3:10-12 ESV). If it were not for God’s loving call upon our hearts, we humans would be trapped, destined to live a sinful, selfish life according to our own lusts and desires. It is only by God’s grace that any of us ever come to know Him. It is not because we are somehow worthy to be forgiven, but because He loves enough to provide a way to forgive us anyway.

God loves us and sent His Son to die for us

Let us take a close look at one of the most famous passages in the Bible, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him” (John 3:16-17 ESV). For many, this passage has been heard so many times that they recite it without giving it the thought it is due. What is this verse saying?

First, it is telling us that God, the Creator and Sustainer of the universe, loves you and me. Think about that! The great and holy God, Who made everything and keeps everything running, cares for little old you and me. I am not sure I understand why He loves us as He does, but the Bible says it is true, so I believe it.

Secondly, God loves us so much that He sent His Son, Jesus, to die on a cross to pay for our sins (John 1:29; Romans 5:8). It is the love of God that draws people to Him (1 John 4:9-10).

Thirdly, our part is to have faith in Jesus Christ; then we will have forgiveness from our sins and eternal life with God (Ephesians 2:4). Jesus came into the world to give us life; He did not come to judge us.

What about the “unforgivable sin”?

In Mark 3:28-30 and Luke 12:9-11 we read about a sin that is ‘unforgivable’. Many people believe that they have committed this sin and therefore cannot be forgiven. However, without going into a theological discussion too lengthy for this article, the basic definition of the ‘unforgivable sin’ is simply rejecting the truth of God, the truth of the Gospel, and the truth of Jesus Christ (a very helpful and enlightening article on this subject can be found here: What is the unforgivable sin). Therefore, the only way a person can commit the ‘unforgivable sin’ is to continue rejecting Jesus Christ as his or her Lord and Savior.

God can save anyone who is willing

Romans 3:26 tells us that we are justified, and forgiven, by putting our faith in Jesus, and Romans 10:9-10 tells us that we are saved, “…if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is saved” (Romans 10:9-10 ESV).

If we confess our sins and place our faith in Christ as payment for the sins for which we are guilty, God promises us forgiveness, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9 ESV).


No one has sinned too much or too bad for God to save. God is powerful enough to do anything He wants to do. He has promised us that He will save us if we will confess and repent of our sins, trust in Jesus Christ for our salvation, and live for Him. The biblical record shows us that God loves us and, through His Son, has made a way for us to be forgiven. The Bible also shows us that God saved the vilest perpetrator of evil upon believers, the apostle Paul, and used him in a mighty way to further His kingdom. There is nothing that any of us have ever done that will disqualify us from receiving the forgiveness and salvation that God offers as a free gift. My prayer is that you will trust Him with your life today.

Read more about forgiveness in the Bible here:

What does the Bible say about forgiveness

Resources – The Holy Bible, English Standard Version “Scripture quotations are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version® (ESV®), copyright © 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.” YouTube video “Forgiveness” by Matthew West

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Jack Wellman May 18, 2013 at 10:01 pm

Sterling work again Robert my friend. Why would He? No clue. Just because He is God and this is what is so amazing about His grace.


Steven May 23, 2013 at 1:00 am

I used to struggle with salvation and wonder how God could forgive me. I struggled with it for a few months and then I realized my sin, pride.

Pride is a powerful thing, and arguably, the sin that started it all. I was so proud of my sin that I had no idea how God could forgive someone like me. Or maybe I just didn’t want to really believe it. Once I realized that, a huge relief came over me. God opened my eyes and now I know that as much as God hates sin, as much as He hates us for sinning, He loves the world so much that He gave His only Son Jesus to bear the punishment of our transgressions against The Father.

The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit all love us and want a relationship with us. Don’t let pride hold your back.


Robert May 23, 2013 at 6:56 am

Thank you, Steven,
You are absolutely right. Pride is a terrible and sneaky thing. When I first became a Christian, I wrestled with the pride of thinking I was better than others because I was saved. Like it was something I did myself. God got a hold of me and set me straight though. Thank you for reading and commenting. May God continue to bless you in your walk with Him.
Yours in Christ,


Nnadozie May 24, 2013 at 12:55 pm

Wonderful write-up!!! But I have a problem. We are all sinners,I know,but when I ask God for forgiveness which he does forgive me,I still find my self doing the same thing again and get furious with my self. Because,I feel it’s somehow asking God for forgiveness over and over again and still going back to the same sin.So,that’s where the question comes in “would God forgive me again”. Deep down I really don’t want to sin but somehow I just succumb to temptation and find myself doing it and I feel ashamed to still ask God for forgiveness again. Although I still have no choice than to beg for forgiveness but I feel sad


Robert May 24, 2013 at 3:23 pm

Thank you for reading and commenting. Some bad habits are harder to overcome than others. We’ve spent many years serving our own lusts and now we are trying to serve God. Hang in there, don’t give up. God will forgive you as often as it takes, if you are sincerely repenting. Trust in His power and it will become easier and easier to resist temptation. Remember, sometimes we must make a change in our circumstances to be able to avoid temptation. In other words, we can’t keep doing the same thing and expect change. Might I suggest you read this article, pray for God’s strength and guidance, and know you aren’t alone in your struggle.
God bless you.
Yours in Christ,


Nnadozie May 25, 2013 at 2:35 am

Thank you very much,God bless you


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Robert May 27, 2013 at 3:13 pm

He is worthy of all our honor and praise. God bless you.
Yours in Christ,


Johanna June 23, 2013 at 11:23 pm

Thank you for serving our Lord of Lords and King of Kings.


rachel August 14, 2013 at 8:10 am

Thank you so much 🙂 took a massive load off my shoulders:)


Robert August 14, 2013 at 1:19 pm

God bless you, Rachel,
Continue to trust in God. He is all mighty and all loving. He loves you.
Yours in Christ,


Pete January 24, 2016 at 6:15 pm

Robert. I was born again 14 years ago and had a wonderful relationship with the Lord. Life got really hard and I started drinking but became addicted and now 6 years later I feel completely unforgivable and am afraid I’ve lost my salvation. I’ve quit everything and repented of all known sin but the guilt and condemnation I feel is almost unbearable. How could God forgive me for dealing so terrible to him. I’m really upset and never thought I could get this far from God. He already cancelled my sin debt once. He has every right to send me to hell. But I just want to serve Him again. I’m troubled by verses in Hebrews and 2 Peter. But have found hope in Isaiah, Ezekiel, and James 5:19-20. I’m just concerned I was the rocky soil believer and that there is no second chance with God. I know he is capable of anything. I just know I don’t deserve mercy.


marielena July 20, 2017 at 3:02 am

when i ask for forgiveness .. something in the back of my mind is like ” oh you dont mean that ” but i do !!!! i mean it with all my heart , so then i start to feel uncleansed like God didnt even forgive me and i just feel .. so uncleansed


Jack Wellman July 20, 2017 at 8:09 am

Hello Marielena. Yes, it does make sense, but 1 John 1:9 is objective truth while our “feelings” are not trustworthy. Talk to your pastor about this because all who have repented and trusted in Christ will be saved, regardless of what they feel, uncleansed or otherwise, we must believe God’s Word and not our feelings.


marielena July 20, 2017 at 3:03 am

probably doesnt even make sense ..


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