Christian Wedding Ceremony Sample Outline

by Pamela Rose Williams · Print Print · Email Email

God has blessed me with the honor of being a Pastor’s wife.  In this role I have also been my husband’s personal secretary and office manager of several churches. One of my most favorite things to do is to prepare the paperwork for Christian wedding ceremonies. I have lost count of how many wedding ceremonies we have planned and performed, but through the years I have learned that preparing a wedding ceremony requires careful thought and simple tools.

One tool for planning is a good wedding ceremony outline. Here is a sample outline for a Christian wedding ceremony that may help you as you plan.

Note: At any place during the ceremony special music or other inspirational words may be included

I.       Prelude

Generally some sort of music is played in the church or other gathering place beginning anywhere between 15 to 20 minutes before the wedding ceremony begins.  This may be live or prerecorded music.

II.     Processional

This is where the Bride’s Maids and the Bride walk the aisle to the front of the church where the Groom’s men and the Groom wait.  Generally, the procession is accompanied by classical or other Godly music.

III.    Minister Greeting and Introductions

A.   Welcome and Explanation

In this section the minister tells the audience the purpose of the gathering. This is also a good place to insert what the Bible teaches about marriage. References to Genesis 2:18-24 is a great place to start.

 B.   Presentation of the Groom

In this section the minister introduces the Groom.  This is a good place to have the minister speak about what the Bible says about the role of the husband.  Reference to Ephesians 5:25-32 is recommended. The minister can also explain the symbolic relationship of the husband and wife and how that relates to the relationship of Christ and the Church.

 C.   Presentation of the Bride

In this section the minister introduces the Bride.  This is a good place to have the minister speak about what the Bible says about the role of the wife.  Reference to Ephesians 5:22-24 is recommended and this can lead into the general description of love with reference to 1 Corinthians 13:1-8.

D.    Minister’s Prayer

This is where the minister welcomes the Holy Spirit to help the Bride and Groom to remember the importance that God puts on marriage and the seriousness of the roles and responsibilities that they are about to undertake.

IV.     Groom and Bride Exchanges

A.     Exchange of Vows

In this section the Groom and Bride may have prepared their own vows or they may repeat after the minister. The Groom takes vows first, followed by the Bride.

B.     Exchange of Rings (optional)

(Note: Remove the bride’s engagement ring prior to the service and place on the right hand or give it to the Maid of Honor to hold until the conclusion of the ceremony. If there is no ring bearer, the Best Man will hold the Bride’s wedding ring and the Maid of Honor will hold the Groom’s wedding ring. Also at this time the Bride hands her bouquet to the maid of honor)

The minister explains the symbolism of the wedding ring.  The Groom gives the ring to the Bride first at the direction of the minister and then the Bride gives the ring to the Groom at the direction of the minister.

V.      Pronouncement of Marriage

This is where the minister reminds the audience and the Bride and Groom that the man and woman are no longer two independent persons, but one.  As good Scripture to insert here would be Matthew 19:16.

VI.     Unity

A.     Unity Candle (optional)

(Note: make sure there is a lighter for the small candles available, or have the small candles lit before the ceremony; this is the Best Man’s responsibility)

This is where the Bride and the Groom go together to a candle station where there is a large center candle that is to be lit together with a smaller candle that is held by each the Bride and the Groom.  Usually some special music is played at this time. At the same time the Groom and Bride may be praying quietly together while the music plays.

B.     The Groom and Bride at the Lord’s Supper (optional)

(Note: Make sure the Lord’s Supper table is prepared prior to the ceremony; this is a good responsibility for the Maid of Honor if there is no one in the church to do it)

This is where the Groom takes his Bride to a side table that is prepared with the bread and wine for the Lord’s Supper.  The minister may or may not preside over this.  It is really special to have the Groom serve the Bride and then the Bride serve the Groom.  This is followed by an intimate prayer from the Groom to God asking the Lord to provide for his leadership in this new family.

C.     Presentation of Gifts to the Mothers of the Bride and Groom (optional)

(Note: Make sure the gifts are prepared and available prior to the ceremony; this is a good responsibility for the Maid of Honor)

This is where the Bride and the Groom present something to their mothers as a symbol of their love and affection. Generally it is a rose, but keep in mind that some folks are allergic to real flowers so a lovely silk flower is just as effective.  The Bride presents to the Mother of the Bride first, followed by the Groom presenting to the Mother of the Groom. A great Scripture for the minister to share would be Proverbs 31:28.

VII.   Message from God’s Word

This is where the minister preaches the message that has been chosen by the Bride and Groom.  Since this is a Christian wedding ceremony it is a good idea to include the message of salvation here. Any of the following Scriptures will fit well.  Keep in mind this is not an exhaustive list because all of God’s Word is good!

Genesis 2:18-24 ,Psalm 100, Song of Solomon 7:6-7, Matthew 19:4-6, John 15:9-12, Romans 12:1-3, 9-13, I Corinthians 13, Ephesians 3:14-19,
Ephesians 5:21-33, Philippians 4:8-9, Colossians 3:12-17

VIII.  Invitation to Special Event

This is where the minister invites the audience to any Special Event that the Bride and Groom have planned.

IX.    Closing Prayer and Benediction

This is where the minister prays a blessing on the marriage, the Bride and Groom and all who are gathered.

 X.     Introduction of the new Husband and Wife

This is where the minister introduces the new Mr. & Mrs.  This is also where the minister gives permission for the Groom to kiss his Bride.  This is generally followed by a round of applause.

 XI.    Recessional

This is a time where music is generally played and the Bride and Groom are followed by the wedding party to the rear of the church or other gathering place.  It may or may not be followed by other instrumental music once the bridal party has exited.  The audience is then allowed to leave the church.

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{ 18 comments… read them below or add one }

Josh August 19, 2011 at 10:29 pm

Great resource here Pam! Thanks for compiling this.


Pam August 20, 2011 at 12:29 pm

Thanks for your kind words Josh. It is my good pleasure to share on your wonderful site!


Jack Wellman August 20, 2011 at 9:49 am

What a great resource this is Pam. After performing a wedding I wish that I had this then after reading your wonderful work here. I look forward to the day when we, the Bride of Christ, will marry the Lamb of God.


Pam August 20, 2011 at 12:29 pm

AMEN! me too


Amber April 12, 2012 at 6:59 pm

Thanks for the descriptions, we are working on order of ceremony with our pastor, she just emailed us the list and have not talked about it yet, so it was nice to be able to catch up on some of my wedding ceremony vocabulary.


skye alison June 25, 2012 at 8:39 am

Thanks Pam for this helpful and comprehensive outline of a truly Christian ceremony. I like the options it presents too. Great!


Julie July 21, 2012 at 10:19 pm

Hi, Pam. I really like this format. We’re getting married in !october in an outdoor wedding.m our officiant is not a pastor. Is it still okay to have him pray and read scripture during our ceremony? He is a Christian and we are too. We’re trying to keep it meaningful and unique to us. Many tips? Thanks for any follow up. I appreciate u making this available.


Pastor Khadga November 22, 2012 at 8:44 am

Appreciate of your sample that also helps me so much to conduct wedding ceremony this coming Monday (Nov 26, 2012). May God bless you so much. Pastor from Nepal: Asia.


joshua February 18, 2013 at 3:03 pm

that so right


Ghen April 11, 2013 at 1:55 am

It’s such a great help. Thanks Pam


john April 19, 2013 at 9:21 pm

This is a nice sample outline, thank you.
One thing concerns me, did you have any say about the Islam ad, seems strange on a Christian site.


jaset June 1, 2015 at 11:29 pm

god bless you all for your good works. this has helped me a lot.


Wilson Luis January 5, 2016 at 10:33 pm

Beautifully presented! Thanks a lot.


Greg January 23, 2017 at 12:48 am

Where does the whole idea of a marriage ceremony come from? I have been married many years and have photographed hundreds of ceremonies, but can find no basis for them in Scripture. Marriage definitely. Ceremonies nothing.


Jack Wellman January 23, 2017 at 8:54 am

There is nothing in the Bible about a marriage ceremony but neither is there anything about having a wedding ring, but don’t you want one because it is a very special occasion. Why do you not want a wedding ceremony? Since there is also nothing about wedding rings, are you not going to wear a wedding ring either? Just because the Bible is silent on something or doesn’t mention it, doesn’t mean it is sin.


TINA July 27, 2017 at 11:46 pm



Isaac Love September 17, 2018 at 10:38 pm

Did you mean Matthew 19.16 to be the Scripture reference for the Pronouncement of Marriage? Thanks.


Sheila Beth C. Corpyz December 4, 2019 at 11:49 pm

Thank you for this great help Pastora Pam. May God bless you, your family and your ministry more abundantly. Warm Christmas greetings to your family fron ours here in the Philippines. God bless!


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